Beyond the Binary: Celebrating Identity Through Naming Ceremonies
Let’s get one thing clear right off the bat: naming ceremonies are not just for babies. Yes, those tiny humans in cute rompers deserve a lovely welcome to the world—but so do adults claiming their true name for the first time. Especially when that name comes with a story of becoming.
As a celebrant who champions inclusivity, creativity and bold self-expression, I want to shout this from the rooftops: trans naming ceremonies matter. They are powerful, emotional, liberating and joyful. And every person—regardless of age, gender or background—deserves to feel seen and celebrated.
What Is a Trans Naming Ceremony?
It’s a ceremony that affirms identity. A ritual of reclaiming. A big, beautiful "this is me" moment.
Whether it’s for a teenager navigating their identity, an adult shedding an old name that never fit, or anyone in between—a trans naming ceremony gives space to be recognised, respected and rooted in truth.
There’s no one-size-fits-all here. This is about you. It can be small and quiet, or big and bold. Either way, it’s a powerful way to say: I’m here. This is who I am. And I deserve to be celebrated.
Why It Matters
Changing your name legally is one thing (and let’s be honest, the paperwork is enough to make anyone scream into a cushion). But having your name spoken by loved ones? Witnessed by your community? That’s something else entirely.
Naming ceremonies offer something the admin never will: joy, connection, and symbolic meaning. They're a chance to honour the journey, the courage, the identity—not just the change on paper.
Especially for the trans community, who have often had to fight to be seen, a naming ceremony can feel like reclaiming space. It’s not about becoming someone new. It’s about becoming more yourself than ever.
What Happens at a Naming Ceremony?
The short answer: whatever feels right for you.
Here are just a few ideas we could include:
Personal affirmations: You speaking your truth in your own words
Words of support: Chosen family, friends or partners sharing stories or messages
Symbolic acts: Lighting candles, planting trees, releasing petals or balloons (eco-friendly, of course!)
Poetry and music: Your soundtrack, your vibe, your expression
The name reveal: A showstopper moment, soft or sparkly, loud or low-key
Every element can be tailored to reflect your identity and personality. If you want disco and drag? Love that. Want it held quietly under a favourite tree? Perfect. I’m here to help craft a ceremony that feels like you.
For Kids, Teens, Adults & Everyone In Between
I’ve worked with all ages, and let me tell you: there is no age limit on becoming yourself.
Whether you’re supporting a young person through their transition or standing in your own truth later in life, this moment matters. And marking it with ceremony can be healing, validating, and joyful beyond measure.
And let’s not forget chosen family. Not everyone has supportive relatives of origin, but the people who do show up? They make these moments unforgettable.
How I Show Up As Your Celebrant
This work is close to my heart. I create trans naming ceremonies with the same level of care, attention and sparkle as I do for weddings and funerals. Because this milestone matters.
Here’s what you can expect from me:
Respectful language, always (I ask, not assume)
A creative, flexible approach (no boring scripts or forced traditions)
Protection of your privacy and story
Joyful, affirming energy that celebrates you, your way
And most of all? A safe space.
You Deserve to Be Celebrated
There is no rulebook for living your truth. But a naming ceremony can be a powerful way to honour the steps you’ve taken, the name you’ve chosen, and the person you’re becoming.
So whether you're trans, non-binary, genderqueer or questioning, know this:
You are worthy of ceremony. You are worthy of joy. And I’d be honoured to help you celebrate it.
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